Hiv and oral exposure

[Missy575]

Okay im a 16 year old female , who had a possible hiv exposure about 5 months ago i gave unprotected oral sex to a co worker whom i know pretty well and claims does not have hiv but you never know. I heard that he has had bisexual encounters before with men which worrys me. He also ejaculated into my mouth and i swallowed it. About a week later the same thing happened again. i had no cuts / sores or any gum problems at this time. So about a few weeks after that i had 2 other encounters with 2 different guys unprotected in which one did not *** but pre-came and the other one came in my mouth but i spit it out. I was going through a real promiscious phase and i highly regret it because i have been paranoid ever since this all happened. For the past 5 months every single day i have not been feeling well , with on/off fatigue and loose bowels and sometimes low grade fevers and general discomfort all over , i had a dry cough for a few weeks but its gone now. Im still going through the fatigue and the loose bowels and general discomfort and sometimes shortness of breath and i noly had a sore throat for about a day during these past 5months. Inbetween this time i went to the doctors and she diagnosed me with a cold. Then bout a month later i went back and told her i still didnt feel well and that i had a cough she referred me to get xrays and a bloodtest and everything was fine. So idk what to do i really think i was infected with hiv im so scared. If not hiv what else could this be? could it be anxiety related? idk please help

[ghostrider111]

Hi.. no matter how many times people tell you,  that you are most probably not infected (which i think as well) the thought will still hover in your mind,

The hard part for you is however over.. which is the wait for at least 3 months before getting tested. Go ahead and get tested, it would take only a day for you move on after that. I am telling you from experience. And therafter always have protected sex.

[andysover]

You can not get HIV through giving oral sex, semen or not cut or not. Saliva works well against HIV and cant last long while air is present. On the other hand other STD can be passed in this way, HIV is least of your worries. If you look through previous posts you will find plenty of HIV oral sex threads and posts and will give you an in depth look at what you need to know.

[david623]

I think you do not have HIV. I had unprotected sex and had the same signs. I tested at 3 months and 6 months and all came back neg.  My doc said that you can get other STD during oral sex so you have to be careful.  You should alway have those boys were a non-lub condom (for oral ONLY)to protect each other from STDs.