Symptoms in partner but I am the negatives prior? The heck

[Whattheheckisthis26]

ok, so started with a new partner, had unprotected casual sex for 2 months once in a while. I been negative(hiv and stds)  prior no exposures but last week we had sex again and one week later she got a uti and fever. Very odd, all of a sudden uti, congestion(stuffed nose) and fevers. Only guess is that was rough ish and I didn't pull out this time? but the usual peeing after the sex still occurred. Negative covid.

Anyway, I am confused. Is this hiv symptoms? Can hiv create if I am negative and we did something wrong?  The heck can this be. Texas weather? Thank you.

[Karina1255]

I get UTIs from too much sex or having a long drought and having sex. It’s bacteria. Especially if the girls vulva doesn’t have a wide opening when her legs are closed (regular). UTIs can cause fevers, pain, almost a paranoia feeling, bleeding, etc.  they can be little or huge. They can be a slow growth to full blown or you can wake up in massive pain. I get them from condoms. If I am drinking and not hydrating and have sex. They are common. They suck. And thinking they are HIV symptoms is quite offensive. Do you like this girl?  Are you only worried about yourself?  Did you even research UTIs? Maybe she is sleeping with someone else and more recently. It doesn’t have to be the second you cum. It may help if you pee after. But it’s more about washing your bacteria off her. She didn’t get sick alone. Did you wash yourself? Is the ownership- just on her?  Maybe you’re dirty. Maybe she is really sick because you gave it to her. Be humble. Go get her some food. Put on a movie. Rub her back. Have some sympathy. Hope she gets some antibiotics to kill your bacteria so it doesn’t turn into a kidney infection. Unreal.

[CurfewX]

HIV doesn't spontaneously generate between two negative partners.  

Also, it's a major stretch to try to relate these symptoms to HIV, since the respiratory symptoms are common to MULTITUDE respiratory viruses, and UTIs have nothing to do with HIV, and are not uncommon in women.

[Whattheheckisthis26]

Thank you very much.