No risk. You are victim of anxiety. Trust yourself.
You're posting the exact same question for a third time since January, which is a clear sign of obsessive behavior. If you truly want to help yourself get over this, instead of wasting your time trolling around HIV forums on the internet, do a Google search for therapists in your area who accept your insurance. That's the only kind of help you need.
You posted about this before. No need for this thread. Continue posting to the old thread instead of this one.
Here was the advice. "If you are still worried after reading Chima's advice, then see a therapist because you don't have much time before your marriage, and you don't want to be worried then about this non-event."
My new advice is here. See the therapist to try to deal with your hiv phobia before the marriage, because your wife will not want to see it. This is an hiv forum but your problem is fear of disease and no one here can help with that. Only therapist can help in a one on one discussion.