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Had intercourse with a woman I met through a dating app,

A week ago I had my first hook up in a while with a woman i met through tinder, we met up & had sex, thankfully a condom was used when it came to penetration, that I’m aware of no breakage occurred. My question is despite receiving unprotected oral, fingering her & kissing is there any reason to worry of HIV ?! Should there be any concern to get tested ? Or not really besides my yearly check ups ? Thank you.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (for oral someone's lips, mouth, saliva, penis, fluids etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are only 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe.
You can't get hiv when you used a condom, so it doesn't matter how many times you do something that is no risk.
You don't need help - you had zero risk.
Not sure if your doctor gives you a yearly checkup for hiv if you always have no risk. If a condom fails it rips apart down the seam so that didn't happen or you both know it.
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