"There's a condom on your..." -Angry Wife

[worried_in_houston]

This is my first post, and I'm pretty worried right now, so if someone who has the qualifications could answer my question in detail, I'd really appreciate it.

I gave a stripper cunnilingus a few nights back, and at the same time was fingering her with a finger I had cut on a broken bear glass a few hours earlier. I don't remember if the cut was bleeding or not, as I was too drunk to remember. After that I started puking, and ended up home with my wife and a condom on my penis. Not a good evening to say the least. Aside from the embarrassment of the situation, do I have anything to worry about re: HIV or anything else for that matter, but specifically HIV. I already had unprotected vaginal sex with my wife since then, probably about 30 hours after the incident. She is 9 mos. pregnant, and I terrified that I might infect my wife and possibly our soon to be born baby. What should I do?

[Teak]

You were never at risk for HIV but you were for other STDs and if you would have searched the forum you would have read replies to the same question.

[worried_in_houston]

I really appreciate your time. I have searched the forums extensively, and I've found a few posts which address various parts of my situation. For example, a cut while fingering, or cunnilingus, or not sure if the cut was bleeding, but not all in conjunction with one another. With my wife pregnant and almost due, I'm already a little on edge, so I guess I'm really freaking on a bit.

My next question is...
   1. What course of action should I take from here?
   2. Do I need testing or some kind, and when?
   3. Should I refrain from some activities, and if so, which ones, and until when?

Once again, I really appreciate all your help and time. Thanks again!

[Teak]

1. get tested for oral STDs.
2. the STD forum should be able to give you the testing guidelines or contract your doctor.
3. I doubt you are having any sex with your wife at the moment any. Get tested.