hiv is an evil little *******. the amount of stress is causes to even hiv negative folks (such as yourself), is insane. protected sex is 99.99% risk free - nothing is 100% - but hiv is unable to penetrate the latex/ polyurethane barrier, that much is true.
Hello I just want to follow up my post...it has been three weeks since my last ecouter and at the sixth day I cought a small flu and now at the end of the third week I have small red dots on the back of both forearms. ..does this resemble ARS in any way?
On the other hand I know my enconters wee protected and they pose no risk of hiv but here in the forum I have read answers stating that protected encounters pose "little to no risk" what is the criteria for "LITTLE"? Or is protected sex simply NO RISK plain and simple?
Hello I just want to follow up my post...it has been three weeks since my last ecouter and at the sixth day I cought a small flu and now at the end of the third week I have small red dots on the back of both forearms. ..does this resemble ARS in any way?
On the other hand I know my enconters wee protected and they pose no risk of hiv but here in the forum I have read answers stating that protected encounters pose "little to no risk" what is the criteria for "LITTLE"? Or is protected sex simply NO RISK plain and simple?
Thank you so much for your kind guidance and advice I am strongly going to seek therapy as I am aware this is becoming an issue for me and I feel I am not enjoying sex anymore. ..once again thank you
You already know the answers, as you've already said.
NOTHING you did placed you at risk for HIV. It's obvious that anxiety is ruling your thoughts....as you're having trouble accepting that when you're using a condon, you're protected, unless the condom breaks (slippage isn't a risk)....and that condom breaks are VERY obvious, you don't need to be testing them with water. If you pulled it off in one piece, it's good.
I strongly urge you to seek professional help for your anxieties about HIV before they get worse. I would also advise doing that before you have more sexual encounters that you're going to worry about.