Massage and hand job the risk of HIV

[Fha]

Hi please can you answer my question please, I had a massage with Thi girl and after she finished massage my back she over me a hand jop she was dressed and no kissing nothing rather than she used the massage oils on my pine until I come, what is the risk of having hiv , I don’t know anything about the girl she works ln the massage centre. Thank you

[Sara_MHModerator]

Our members have patiently answered your question.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

Same advice applies as before. Only sex risks are penetrating unprotected vaginal or anal. https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/oraquick/show/2956224

[Fha]

But this is not the same , i just happened to me before 3 day , she was dressed she only use her hand and oil and I didn’t touch here or any of her body, but my worry is that she touch my pins with no condom and the oil my go inside from the head or any skin problem i don't know  , so please that was long time and the massage is just befor 3 days, thank you so much.

[Fha]

I just need to know what is the risk of that massage and the hand jop pleas

[AnxiousNoMore]

Reread. "Only sex risks are penetrating unprotected vaginal or anal."

Therefore there is no purpose in you asking about every form of sexual encounter you can think of when only 2 ae risks. I'm sure you know the meaning of the word "only".

[CurfewX]

It's a different event, but you were given the ONLY risks for HIV in that thread, and those risks have not changed.

The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

Nothing else you can think of would put you at risk for HIV.  NOTHING.  You cannot get HIV or any STD through someone's hands, no matter what.

[Fha]

Thank you so much, thanks alot

[Fha]

Please Mr Anxious No more I didn’t understand what do you mean by only
I'm sure you know the meaning of the word "only" Only what my English not that good really but thank you so much for answering and helping with my questions)

[AnxiousNoMore]

I meant you don't get hiv if you don't 1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

That is all you need to know.

[Fha]

Thank you so much for your explanation, ) thanks because i was thinking what did he mean by only and did confuse me) no I didn’t hade sex with her or un protected anal or viginal sex she just as l said but an oil in here hand and did a hand job , i am sorry to ask about such things like that its just the way human think when they do something wrong, and every think will come on mind crazy feeling and thinking such as what if she did that or what if the oil mixed with something or if she had blood in here hand or …….. and so on , after all thank you so much and thanks for your friends with regards.

[GuitarRox]

Glad you understand the risks now and can move on without worry about this event.

[Fha]

Hi I am sorry to write again just please why I am filling pins on my inner  leg thigh top not filling good nothing else just this I know I am not at risk and i feel good from time to time it’s just this? I know with no penetrating no risk , I know it sounds crazy and I even asked Dr Edward Hook, MD and he said nothing to worry about its save , from your opinion how to forget this what I have to do to just ignore this. And move on.

[Fha]

I feel good when I write her I swear

[GuitarRox]

The thing is, we are volunteers and we are not in a position to answer the same questions over and over for the same person because they have anxiety.  Not enough reassurance in the world will satisfy anxiety until you address IT as the problem. I hope you understand what I am saying. You may have a mental health block and your thinking is stuck. You have to unstick that through treatment for anxiety.  We've already told you what the risks are and you didn't have one for HIV.  Talk to your doctor about anxiety.