Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

ARS or something less?

I recently had unprotected sex with someone who was unaware of their status. I might be paranoid because this was my first sexual encounter. We had oral and vaginal sex. By the way I'm a female and he's a straight male. He did not ejaculate in my mouth but there was a little bit of pre-cum. He said he didn't ejaculate inside of me but as me just losing my virginity i wouldn't know how it felt if he did but he said he didn't, plus it only lasted about 5 minutes due to me not being able to take it anymore but now I'm having symptoms similar to ars and I'm  going crazy and would just like so advice on the situation here is the timeline
I had unprotected sex on the 14th, By the 19th i felt pretty sick with mild chills and a little sweating that night. On the 22nd fatigue hit me like it never has, i was light headed and nauseated. Throughout these days I've had a mild sore throat but more like a swollen sensation rather than burning. On the 24th i was forced to do alot of talking at work which irritated the situation and it felt like my throat was extremely swollen. The sides of my neck and bottom right under the chin is pretty sore. Im not sure if i have swollen lymph nodes or not. I've had a loss of appetite And haven't really eaten anything for a week. Hopefully its just my anxiety about the situation that's keeping me from eating. I've had minor muscle  and joint aches in my legs but i do stand up 90% of the time I'm at work. I've also had some pains in my stomach from time to time during my time sick. It is now the 28th and im still having issues with my throat, fatigue, and the mild muscle aches. Im going to get tested on Thursday but i need some advice until then.

My main questions are

1. Was 4 days too soon for me to experience ars symptoms after initial exposure ?
2. Is my description of my sexual encounter considered high risk?
3. Is it usual for symptoms to last for such a long period of time? (Ten days since the day i started to feel sick) (13 days after initial exposure )

Thanks you guys.
16 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
I do apologize. Since it was my first one i thought that they take blood everytime. I guess she took blood because of my fears.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Blood test is not a pap test
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
She said she was going to check for everything when she took my blood
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Pap test does not/can not look for HIV.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I go in tomorrow. I originally had an appointment to come back in 3 weeks after my pap smear but they called yesterday and want me to come in to discuss results from my pap smear.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Did you get the results?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Im also thinking that since he took my virginity and probably ripped me would it be easier to pass the virus along? Im so scared
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Looking for an answer
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Update...

I went to the ob/gyn and got my first pap smear. They found that i had a bacterial infection from scented soaps and gave me a prescription for it and drawn blood to test for everything else on the 29th. They then gave me an appointment to come back in three weeks. I just received a call to come in and discuss my pap results and she didnt say it was urgent but it definitely sound like she wanted to get me in as soon as possible. Im freaking out and soooo nervous. Like i stated this was my first pap smear so i dont know if calling someone back in to discuss results is normal protocol or is it only when they find something?
Most of my symptoms that i decribed in my intial post are gone except the sore throat which has been going on for 13 days now. Im scared out my mind that they found HIV. Someone help?
Im sorry im coming here for what may seem like basic questions.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
The 4 th generation test will look for antibodies and antigen at the same time. The lab will draw blood from your vein.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Can someone describe the process of the 4th generation duo test?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Is there a strong chance that i will get a false negative/positive since its only been 15 days since exposure?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
You should take a 4th Generation/Duo test at 4 weeks (28 days)
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I also would like to know what test i should ask for since its so soon
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I am also going through the same symptoms. Now I have developed a rash on my back. I also started getting symptoms just after 6 or 7 days. I had my first HIV test after 11-12 days which came negative. But I am worried such. Best way is to consult the doctor and go for test.
Helpful - 0
11674388 tn?1436937846
No. Ars symptoms dont appear that early.
Unprotected anal sex(but not oral ) carries risk. So always use condoms and be safe.

And your symptoms can be of anxiety. Anxiety causes shooting aches anywhere. a sensation like a lump on any side of the throat is also an anxiety disorder itself. If its swollen it will be easily noticed as swollen. Dont worry
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the HIV Prevention Community

Top HIV Answerers
366749 tn?1544695265
Karachi, Pakistan
370181 tn?1595629445
Arlington, WA
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Condoms are the most effective way to prevent HIV and STDs.
PrEP is used by people with high risk to prevent HIV infection.
Can I get HIV from surfaces, like toilet seats?
Can you get HIV from casual contact, like hugging?
Frequency of HIV testing depends on your risk.
Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) may help prevent HIV infection.