Used unwashed hand to place the condom

[Moemoemoe2020]

To cut the story short. I met a lady, before we have sex i used my hand to play with her vagina, no fingering "it was wet tho" after like 5 minutes I used both hands to place the condom without washing!

We spoke about it and she assured that she is HIV free and her last checkup was 8 months ago, but I have thoughts that killing me!


Condom didn't slip off or got torn.

After i finished i went to the washroom, washed the condom from outside first while it it on "tip facing up" the washed my hands and took it off.

Please advise, Do I need to test for that?! This incident happened 2 weeks ago.

Thanks in advance

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question was fully answered that you did not have a risk and do not need further testing.
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[Moemoemoe2020]

Today is day 40 after my incident and I have received the test kit I ordered online "Icare advanced" HIV 1/2 antibodies test kit 3rd generation.
The result came back negative THANK GOD.

I have another kit to retest on day 90.

Should I relax?!!

[Moemoemoe2020]

The test kit is "HIV 1/2 Rapid screen test"

Im assuming it is 3rd generation test

[Paxiled]

There is an anxiety forum on this site.  You belong there, as has been already advised.  You also should take a class on how sexually transmitted diseases spread and how sex works, including which fluids do what.  Sex is like anything else, we all need to learn about it.  I mention the anxiety forum because you had zero risk, a Google search would have told you that, and people here told you that.  The anxiety forum is full of people who have a phobia about HIV.  We don't discuss HIV there, just the anxiety part of it.  All the best.

[Moemoemoe2020]

I haven't test yet, waiting for the test kit to arrive from abroad.
I have itchy skin since 2 days (no skin color change or patches) it is just itchy, almost all over my body and keeps moving.

So at first night sweating, like 2 weeks after the incident.
Now 32 days I have itchy skin and i feel sweating more than normal while awake!!

I could use all of your thoughts.

Thanks in advance.

[Chima7]

You've received the only advice you're going to get here. You had NO risk. There is NO reason to get tested. There's nothing more that can be said. This is not an anxiety support group. See a doctor for your non related issues.

[Moemoemoe2020]

Chima, I know that Im pushing it and maybe convincing myself with unexciting thing but to make sure we are on the same page.

You say that; based on my story touching vaginal fluids with my hand then using both hands to place the condom considered no risk and i should not worry about it!

[Chima7]

Repeating your question again won't change my advice. You can ask again 150 million times and it will not change the answer. Move on and quit worrying about nothing.

[mike_no]

See a counselor for your guilt. HIV is not your concern.

[Moemoemoe2020]

I know brother, i need to see someone for this panicking attacks i have

[Chima7]

No risk. Touching fluids that have been exposed to the environment is not a risk. No reason to worry, no reason to test.

[Moemoemoe2020]

Thanks for your kind and quick reply. I will rest my mind until i reach 3 months, then i will go for a test!
Also i will not have unprotected sex with my girl until I get tested.

[Chima7]

Testing is not needed because you were never exposed to anything from what you've described. And 3 months is outdated for conclusive test results.

[Moemoemoe2020]

Then how long does it take to get a conclusive result knowing that i will order a test kit online to be shipped to Dubai, UAE and most probably it will be 3rd generation test kit!!

Thanks again for your time.

[Chima7]

For someone like you who was never exposed in the first place, there is no window period and you can expect a negative result.

[Moemoemoe2020]

Last night i developed night sweating and don't feel right!!!!