What arre the risk

[SBIS]

Sorry for my frank note

I am a married man who went to a pub and a massage parlour with a groip of friends. At the pub I flirted with one of the woman. Basically having foreplay and dancing together. We also shared a tequila of the same glass. She gave me light kisses on my lips (no tongue involved) Later I went for a body to body massage where the maaseuse stripped down but had her boxers on. She applied massage oil to my back and gave maasage using her breasts. Later she applied oil to my penis and massaged with her breasts. All this while she had her underpants on. There was no contact of my penis with her vagina. This was followed by a hand job and i came to ejaculate on her hands. There was no oral, vaginal or anal intercourse involved. Later I cleaned myself and came out of the parlour.

My specific questions are

1. Am I at risk of HIV

2. Am I at ris of any other STI

3. The light kisses shared with the lady in the pub or the drink from the same glass . Can it lead to any STI

4. The massaging of my bare penis with the breasts of the maaseuse , can it lead to any STI

5. I have tried to avoid relationship with my spouse should i refrain further

6. Do I need to get tested for any STI if so pls let me know the window period

[AnxiousNoMore]

No you can't get STI or HIV from kissing or masturbation. However, she is the last person I would kiss or share a glass with, since she likely gets every flu or strep throat going around.