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Being fingered in a threesome
Dear doctors, Three days ago I went to a night club with my boy friend. And we decided to go to the "dark room" for some adventure. We were kissing and another guy came to us, my boy friend started fingering that guy and almost immediately he fingered me with the same hand and finger. I am aware that fingering is not a risk to transmit HIV, however I kept assuming things. Can you please clarify couple of things for me:
1. If the other guy's anal was bleeding a little bit and the blood was on my boy friend's finger. Would that put me at risk of hiv that my boy friend fingered me right away? Why?
2. How long the virus can stay alive outside of the body. I would say my boy friend fingered me almost right away (1-2 second) after fingering the other guy.
3. If some rectal fluid or that guy's pre-cum or cum stays on my boy friend's finger, would that put me at risk of HIV that he fingered me right away?
4. Do I need to do an HIV test?
Thank you very much.
1. If the other guy's anal was bleeding a little bit and the blood was on my boy friend's finger. Would that put me at risk of hiv that my boy friend fingered me right away? Why?
2. How long the virus can stay alive outside of the body. I would say my boy friend fingered me almost right away (1-2 second) after fingering the other guy.
3. If some rectal fluid or that guy's pre-cum or cum stays on my boy friend's finger, would that put me at risk of HIV that he fingered me right away?
4. Do I need to do an HIV test?
Thank you very much.
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As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
NOTHING else you can think of is a risk for HIV, including the event you described. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
You do not need to test at all for HIV, since you were not at risk of contracting HIV.
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.
NOTHING else you can think of is a risk for HIV, including the event you described. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.
You do not need to test at all for HIV, since you were not at risk of contracting HIV.
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Even if the other guy is HIV+ and some of his blood or rectal fluid left on my boy friend's finger, and right away fingering me?
Sorry about my paranoia. I just wanted to know the scientific explanation behind this to calm myself down.
Sorry about my paranoia. I just wanted to know the scientific explanation behind this to calm myself down.
We always assume one person is HIV+. If we didn't assume that, there would never be any risk since an HIV- person can't transmit HIV. NO RISK, NO MATTER WHAT.
No one has ever been infected that way, and you won't be the first.
No one has ever been infected that way, and you won't be the first.
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