i had a protected anal sex with someone and didn't ejaculate, i am top, then after that i pulled it out then I suggested to remove the condom and just give me oral, but he touched my penis, i believe that it has a fluid then i touched her anus too then jerk off my penis, a week later I had oral sex with someone trans that I don't know and i rubbed his anus also, but it's all oral, I tested 5weeks after that anal sex with condom and 3weeks to that oral that i don't know his status, i tested non-reactive 3rd gen, but the doc used a plasma from a vein in my arms, and suggested me to come over after 3months, I am getting paranoid and still experiencing symptoms
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You can't have hiv so any test will be a waste of time. You need a better doc than the one who is wasting your time with purposeless tests.
You don't have hiv - therefore you don't have hiv symptoms - if you have a medical issue see a doctor who can diagnose them since you have been wasting time thinking you have hiv symptoms.