cunnilingus and protected sex

[stressed24981]

This is my first post and id appreciate very much for your view and advice on the ordeal that i am in. On the 18th of May, i performed around 10 sec of cunillingus on a CSW(escort service) and proceeded to engage in protected sex with her for about 2 min before guilt set in and i decided to stop without ejaculation. Ive been reading online and am getting quite confused on the risk of hiv through cunilingus. Dr Hunter Hansfield and Dr Hook are of opinion that the risk is too small to worry about and even adviced some of the online members that hiv test is not required if this is the only exposure. My anxiety is really bad as i have a history of panic attacks. Yesterday i took a home hiv test kit and it came out negative, i know this is way too early to be conclusive. What are your thoughts on hiv transmissions through cunnilingus and what tests are available for me to take to give an accurate and conclusive hiv status at around 12 days of potential exposure. 3 months is way too long and i dont know how im going to survive the wait.  A doctor from another site said i should be more worried about the protected sex as condoms are only 85% effective against HIV. Is that true?!??!
Thank you so much for all the advice that you have given.

[stressed24981]

Thanks teak, im going to do you and lizzie and vance a huge favour and hang out in the ocd area, plus im going in for 2nd session of theraphy tommorow, i have to fight the fear of fear itself and i cant do it myself

[Teak]

You never had an exposure and didn't need testing.

[stressed24981]

I finally took the test and got back the results negative as u guys perdicted, but its elisa 3rd gen is it conclusive? Or should i wait till 12 weeks?

[stressed24981]

Guys im going into my sixth week, but now am developing a flu.... Is it possible for flu to come early in the 6th week for ars? Im planning to get tested end of this week... Very very worried

[stressed24981]

Thanks teak

[Teak]

You never had an exposure, move along.

[stressed24981]

There is still some anxiety in me... Especially when i start thinking bout taking a hiv test... And then all the what if situations comes to play.....i know the risk is neglible...is it neglible enough for me not take a test though.?.. Ive never done this before and the guilt and anxiety is overwhelming...

[LIZZIE LOU]

you're still waiting on "us" to tell you why someone, from another site, said what he did?

can't do it !

the use of latex, polyurethane, and polyisoprene condoms are totally effective against the spread of the hiv virus.

[stressed24981]

Still waiting for a reply....

[stressed24981]

Im curious though, where is the doc getting his statistics from with regards to the effectiveness of the condom?

[Vance2335]

Yes, when you look down you don't see the condom covering you anymore, you see bare penis.

[stressed24981]

Thanks vance, the doc just scared the **** outta me...ive always thought that protected sex was just that..protected sex...one would however know if condom broke right?

[Vance2335]

If condoms were 85% effective would anyone really be having sex? They are effective when used properly and do not break.

You did not have a risk from anything. I suggest you seek a therapist for your anxiety because no test is going to help you.