Received Unprotected oral sex for 1 minute

[Robin_57]

Even my problem also same brother had only kissing and received blowjob ..i obeserved her mouth inside there is no bleeding and open wounds but her teeth are yellowish with germs but there is no open wounds or cuts in mouth around 1minute I received oral sex is there any possible if she have any mild sore that cannot detected my me or through bacterial germs can transfer hiv through her mouth to my pennies??I kissed her but not deeply I have very mild sore I think there is no bleeding gums and open wounds in my mouth !! I consulted doctor he told I’m in risk I said I will take pep bcz it’s around 42 only over but doctor replied no use of taking pep after 24hrs but also I started taking pep..even that girl is very maintained using v wash etc things said she will test every three months..but doctor said I’m in high risk... I told these things to that girl she’s saying I’m wasting money

[Unknown_108]

Your guilt of cheating is amplifying everything . if oral sex was a risk, people here would have mentioned it. Do you think people who have spent years in this would have ignored what you saw on the cdc? It might be a theoretical risk. i think theres no recorded cases .
Recieving oral isnt a risk ,

Now youre prolly worried because of the doctors opinion, but THE DOCTOR IS WRONG. 1) Pep should be taken before 72 hrs.  I think youre aware of that. The doctor was wrong here

2) oral sex or kissing isnt high risk. Even unprotected vaginal sex has a risk of 1 in 2000. It is less than 1%. It is very very hard to get infected.

3) you shouldnt be taking pep . its only gonna give you side effects.

4)  the girl is right, the doctor is wrong. You are wasting money.

You need counselling, psychological therapy and a new doctor.

You had no risk !

[Robin_57]

What in case she’s having mild bleed mixed with saliva or sore blood mixed saliva that can transfer through my mucous membrane know???? in every website they wrote if they have open sore wound bleeding it is a high risk can get hiv!! I’m freaking for it ...even though she don’t have but what in case she have any of these !!!

[CurfewX]

There is no "what if" that you can add to this scenario that would make it a risk for HIV.  Forget about this event and move on - you did NOT get HIV from this no-risk event.

[Robin_57]

So no testing needing your suggestion im taking pep also it is torturing like hell...in other side my parents and wife asking me to plan for kids... I’m struggling between these two situations...can I stop pep and start planning kids please suggest me and please read my previous concern then decide

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

You have been fully advised that you had no risk for HIV.  If you are taking medication to prevent HIV, that medication is unnecessary since you weren't at risk.  There is nothing more for our members to say.

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[GuitarRox]

Well, you didn't need pep for your risk.  Air and saliva inactivate HIV. I agree with the girl that you are wasting your money.  And PEP is very hard on you side effect wise. It was not needed in this case at all.  I'm sorry that a doctor guided you so terribly in this situation.  They sound uneducated.  The only way adults get HIV is from unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles. That is it.

[Robin_57]

Then why cdc mentioned unprotected oral sex also risky way to get hiv!! like if receptor have bleeding or sores bacterial infections through this insertive partner (means me) will have a chance to get hiv!! Even now also I’m taking pep it’s shivering me a lot I couldn’t face my wife