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HIV thorugh male massage

Hi Guys,
I am from Sydney Australia. I am a straight guy but had this dramatic unexpected encounter.

This is silly to ask this question again and again but out of curiosity I want to know what is the risk of contracting HIV from male massage?

I have posted a question last year with a concern on oral sex and I was tested negative then and again in December 2011 from then I have been maintaining abstinence but out of curiosity I went to a male massage last Friday where I started with hugging the male masseur and touching his penis with mine. Then he kissed my nipple just softly biting them I asked him to stop it and told him that strictly I am not interested in sex. And then we started of with massage he asked me to spread my legs I was lying on my stomach he just touched his hand with my genitals and I immediately ejaculated. Then he started to giving me massage by lying on my legs and I could feel his penis touching my back and near the anus all the time and I felt some wettiness too which I thought was pre cum as he did not ejaculated. I have a scratching cuts on my anus and back what is the risk involved and he turned me over and simulated sex by rubbing my penis near anus he did not insert it into his anus because I was wary of it and warned him not too do that he stopped. The concern I have whether my pre cum might have touched his anal mucous membranous and might I have got an infection.  He then started stroking me penis by touching his and I ejaculated again and that was all the  end of the story. What is my risk whether you want me to get tested. The Sydney Sexual Health center told me that I do not need a test. But after 1 week I am feeling hot head during night, hotness in my arm pits I am concerned that whether the ARS is about to start in the next week.

Please give me straight forward answers because I am freaked out as I am about to leave to my home country after 5 years and do not know what is going on with me. Pls help.
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Thx Teak for ur valuable answers. I will remain absitnence from all kind of sexual activties even frm self mastrubation.
God bless u all. And I apologise to god for my bad behaviour
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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Pls answer my lst quesn I will.end this as I.am going to slp.
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I forgot I put my hand in my nose after few seconds aftet this encounter my hands were not washed. Is it a risk because nose is a known mucous membrane
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Waste of money and resources.
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Thx for ur information, that is all I needed
to ask but  I will hv a duo test after 6 weeeks.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you had NO RISK from anything that you have described.

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

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Thanks Teak nd Lizzie Lou, last wat if he mastribated with his pre cum on his hand
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HIV is not transmitted by masturbation and anal sex requires penetration.
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Wat if he had cuts on his hand while mastrubating me, and wat my penis might have got inserted a liitle into his anus.
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186166 tn?1385259382
transmission requires penetration
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No risk.
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