Well in January, my partner passed away, he was HIV+. I was tested 3 days ago and my test is Neg. I have had unprotected sex since Jan. last one was in the beginning of April, but nothing in the past few months. I have watery diarrhea for about 2 weeks now, and weight loss other then grief I don't know what else the weight loss could be from. I don't have fatigue, and no fever, no swollen lymph glands. I don't see any rash like they talk about for HIV+ symptoms, other then the diarrhea and weight loss. I do not have, or have not had any night sweats in months. I do have slight pain in my upper abdomen, comes and goes, I do sometimes get legs cramps but I think it is from the dehydration from the diarrhea. this has happened in the past, for me lasted about a month, I was so scared but it went away about 5 years ago. So my main question is do you think It could be HIV? that I have to wait longer for a test result to come out poz? I also have geographic tongue, BUT I have had that all my life and its always been bad.I have been tested for any STD, as I do have some discharge from my penis, BUT the test results all came back Neg, including HIV? I have been put on Cipro. 500mg twice daily, started yesterday. The discharge is thick grayish white. Only comes out in the mornings. I guess I should go to a different forum for that BUT just all the symptoms I have been having. Just looking for a second opinion on this matter is all. Thank you for you time.