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Am I at risk?
So, well. Today I had my first HIV test which came out negative. My last sexual encounter was exactly a month ago, I always ask them if they have any kind of disease or something and he said No. The thing I did was oral sex, for like less than 5 minutes, I didn't taste any precum, but I dunno, tho. And then the guy wanted to penetrate me, I said NO, because he didn't had a condom on and I don't like to have penetrative sex with guys at first sight, with or without condom. He did rubbed his penis in my anus, tho. And pushed a little but I keep clenching my anus so there was no penetration at all (I would have felt it, because it was kinda big). Besides, he didn't had any lube although I think he spat in my ***. After a while he kinda got mad because I din't let him in and ejaculated in my ***, between my ckeeks, I cleaned my *** with toilet paper he had and then left. I want to know the risk of this. Even tho I had my HIV test exactly a month after actually managed to calm me down a little... But I keep reading that for a conclusive test the minimun time is 3 months. I'm dying of worry right here.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also instantly in saliva so it is effectively dead and can't infect from oral or kissing or touching so you didn't need to test. Do not waste any more time or money testing for a HIV disease you can't have.
Only sex risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal and non sex risk is injecting from a shared needle. No one in 40 year HIV history got it from touching or oral sex, so after 40 years the above science is very well established, so nothing you can add will make your situation a risk.
Only sex risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal and non sex risk is injecting from a shared needle. No one in 40 year HIV history got it from touching or oral sex, so after 40 years the above science is very well established, so nothing you can add will make your situation a risk.
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This puts me at ease so much! Thank you. But still, I had oral sex. He didn't ejaculated in my mouth and was short (less than 5 minutes) I didn't taste any precum but that has me worried. Even after 4 weeks, a negative HIV test is a good sign, right?
The test accuracy is irrelevant if you reread the advice I gave you starting with the 40.
Thank you! I'm going to sleep well tonight. I'm gonna be super more cautios with sex!
You are at risk for some std though so can check the std forum out for that.
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