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Oral with Pos

Performed oral sex on a female and fingered her (small day old cut kind of like a paper cut). She also gave me oral. after a bit of pestering, she told me she was pos. Now I am freaked. What are my chances of catching it form her. She said it was safe but it would have been nice to have been told before hand so I could make my own decision.
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Thanks all, I think I will test just to ease my mind. I think there should be a law on disclosing status before anything happens. I am only 1 week post exposure so it will be a long wait.
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You are at no risk. There has been no documented case of contracting hiv by fingering or cunnling.  
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Well if I am reading your post correctly - you performed oral sex on her and that is an extremely low risk according to what I just read at the CDC web site and the same goes for the cut but since she stated that she was "positive" that would make me want to test but thats me. Its up to you, if you do test wait three months to get an accurate test result.
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It was pretty tiny cut.
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No blood that I can remember, I actually looked at ti the next day and tried to pull it part to see if it was open and could still get no blood.
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you just cut the skin or was there blood involved when you cut your finger?
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