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Hello, I had sexual intercourse with a companion girl 8 days ago. I inserted it for about 15-20 seconds and did not ejaculate. When I came out, I checked the condom, but it may have slipped a bit and more than 2/3 of it was still wrapped around it. She then put on a condom and had oral sex for me until ejaculation. Additionally, I licked my vagina for about 1 minute, and finally checked that the condom was not damaged. I inquired about her health status, but she  had a test two months ago and it was all good. I would like to inquire about the risk of contracting HIV and syphilis in this state (I have gingival atrophy and chronic gingivitis, no obvious oral ulcers or bleeding points on that day, but I did not have time to observe her vaginal condition and I am not sure if I have come into contact with vaginal secretions)
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There is no reason to ask a new question. We already told you the risks of HIV. I'll do it one more time but we can't keep reassuring you because you suffer anxiety. Your job is to use our answer and apply from now on and to cope with your anxiety, not to keep asking questions over and over.

Risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Remember that from last time? Hasn't changed and never will. A condom slipping up is not a risk as only the head of your penis needs to be covered. Quit bugging other people you have sex with to appease your anxiety. ARe you clean? She could ask that question just as much and it's rude when you made a decision to have sex with someone to bug them after because you suffer an anxiety disorder.

That's your answer, apply to all situations moving forward.
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thanks a lot for this, i would also ask about the risk of syphilis, i would really appreciate it if you could say something about that
This is the hiv forum. But in general, oral sex is low risk for all std's and in the abscense of symptoms there is no need to worry or test. And you had A. a condom in place and B. super brief exposure of it. So, would not worry. But again, do not ask about std questions on this forum.
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in the statement that is :not lick my vagina but hers ,sorry my english is not good
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also I don't know her health conditions right now and she only emphasizes that she is so clean
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" so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life. "
The answer to the QUESTION is > No there wasn't a penis in my anus when I licked and she didn't inject me then so I had no risk and I should see a mental health therapist for hiv fixation, instead of asking the same questions again.
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