Hello, I had sexual intercourse with a companion girl 8 days ago. I inserted it for about 15-20 seconds and did not ejaculate. When I came out, I checked the condom, but it may have slipped a bit and more than 2/3 of it was still wrapped around it. She then put on a condom and had oral sex for me until ejaculation. Additionally, I licked my vagina for about 1 minute, and finally checked that the condom was not damaged. I inquired about her health status, but she had a test two months ago and it was all good. I would like to inquire about the risk of contracting HIV and syphilis in this state (I have gingival atrophy and chronic gingivitis, no obvious oral ulcers or bleeding points on that day, but I did not have time to observe her vaginal condition and I am not sure if I have come into contact with vaginal secretions)
Risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Remember that from last time? Hasn't changed and never will. A condom slipping up is not a risk as only the head of your penis needs to be covered. Quit bugging other people you have sex with to appease your anxiety. ARe you clean? She could ask that question just as much and it's rude when you made a decision to have sex with someone to bug them after because you suffer an anxiety disorder.
That's your answer, apply to all situations moving forward.