I don't know if this will be any help but... I'm pretty sure I got infected in the 80s.... closer to the mid 80s, stopped drinking or taking any kids of chemicals, except what the doctor prescribed in the early 90s, and didn't get diagnosed with hep c until this past January. Biopsy results were grade 2 stage 2 which isn't too bad considering all the years I've had it. I can't say your husband will do the same, but I have read about a lot of people who have done the same or had even less damage. It is usually a slow progression.
Like Bill says, try to get your husband to read the posts on here... he won't feel so alone or scared if he does. You said you go to church now... remind him that God's timing can be trusted, and just do the best you can today...
“What I would like to know is, how long can a person live with HepC and not be treated? Are there instances where it isnt as bad as one really thinks it is.”
It’s impossible to answer this question with any degree of accuracy over the internet, unfortunately. As you probably know, biopsy together with lab results can yield invaluable information, but without these, we’re only guessing.
Yes, there are many instances where people have HCV and don’t progress into cirrhosis or end stage liver disease. In fact, only around 5% of HCV patients will eventually succumb to the disease, although a substantially higher number will develop serious complications as a result of their infection.
Comprehensive health insurance is unfortunately an important management tool for HCV. Short of that, the clinical trials might be a good source to investigate; let us know what you discover, and perhaps someone here can help guide you.
Routine lab results can reliably detect late stage liver disease. If he can somehow afford a CBC, comprehensive metabolic panel, and a liver function test (all blood tests), they should provide qualified doctor with a pretty good glimpse of your husband’s condition, and rule out End Stage Liver Disease.
He’s going to need to conquer his fear of doctors somehow; this disease is doctor/lab intensive; if he decides to undergo antiviral therapy at some point, he’ll need labs and medical contact monthly, if not more frequently.
He might benefit from reading through this forum himself, even if he doesn’t participate. Is that something he’d be interested in? We’ll try to provide him with enough support to alleviate his fears; there are hundreds of us that have already been through this in front of him and survived :o).
My best wishes to you both,
--Bill