Husband death

[gklouisiana]

I just wanted to let everyone know that have tried to help me and my husband with their views about treatment that my husband has passed away.  He died last Tuesday, at 5:30 p.m.  He was admitted to the hospital for severe anemia.  The bleeding never would stop.  They scoped him but found no big bleeders to band or cauterize.  The liver just kept going down and then he went into kidney failure.  He was in the hospital for three weeks.  We have been married for 35 years.  Boy, I can not begin to tell you how much this hurts.  He could of been put on a transplant list but the first two and only office visits we had with the liver doctor my husband had said he never wanted a transplant but when he got really sick he said he would talk to the team about a transplant but the liver doctor said it was to late to be changing your mind.  He said they want someone who wants a transplant from the get go and not when someone realizes they are dying.  I told that doctor they my husband was always one to wait to the last because after he had his chest opened for the first heart valve surgery he said he would never have another heart surgery but when the valve got bad he was ready for another surgery and went in for the surgery.  I could go on and on about what this liver doctor did but it would not change anything.  All I can say is that I know John is not suffering anymore and I will miss in terribly.  I want to thank all of you who have been so kind to respond to my emails.  God Bless yall.

[geterdone]

So Sorry to hear this, My Condolences to you and your family.

[Myown]

I am so sorry to hear this. My Deepest Sympathy....
I will keep you in my prayers.

[wyntre9]

I am so sorry for your loss as well as for your having had to listen to that line-of-cr*p from Mr. liverhead.

My thoughts are with you,

Wyntre

[working dog]

life is tough sometimes... he was lucky to have you...good luck in the future...billy

[Forseegood]

so sorry for your loss...

[Still Living]

My heart goes out to you and yours. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

[bamasangel1119]

I am so very sorry about your loss. Please accept my condolences.

[sfwandwow]

Just look at the great side, he is rejoicing in heaven.. watching over u, he has a great mansion in the sky waiting on u.. The LORD will give u peace..Just keep praying..My condolences go out to u and ur family.. Its hard i know.. have a BLESSED  evening

[jmjm530]

Please accept my condolences.

[cba51]

May the Lord comfort you in your time of need.

Big Al

[GoofyDad]

Very sorry for your loss. I'm sure it is very hard.

[tedinoregon]

Our prayers are with you and your family.

Ted

[GrandmaA]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear husband. May God bless you and give you the strength to continue on.  

[charm27]

Iam so deeply sorry to hear of your loss.
My prayers are wih you at this time.

[pigeonca]

Please accept my deepest condolences.  My prayers are with you.
pigeon

[Lady Lauri]

So very sorry and now is not the time to go into what a heart less man that liver Dr. seems to be.
The months ahead...... many, many things and emotions to go though for you. Please continue to post and talk if and when you need to. I don't know a lot about your situations, age's, I do know 35 years together was a blessing many of us never get. Loss is so very hard and I wish there was any way to make some of your hurt lessen.
Prayers for you and family and the days ahead.
                                                                                     Lauri

[zazza]

So sorry for your loss. It must be so hard for you.

[Andiamo1]

Sorry for your loss.

[Verdugo]

I'm sorry for your loss.  I hope you will continue to post here.

Anna.

[AngelsOnMySide2]

I'm so sorry for your loss, please accept my deepest condolences.

Donna

[pln]

I am so very sorry about your loss. Please accept my condolence.

[AnniePas]

I send my prayers and thoughts to you and your family for strength during this time of sorrow.

[Tallahassee]

Please accept my deepest condolences....

[nygirl7]

I am so sorry for your loss.  Please have faith that eventually you WILL begin to feel a bit better. While it will never go away, you get better at ignoring it to get through the day. My husband died two months ago and well...I'm back to functionning now. I just want you to hang in there. Please feel free to post to us whenever you need someone to speak to.  We Are Here For You.