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I've gone out on a few dates and mention I had hep c.  I cleared 12 wks into treatment and i've been off treatment for 1 yr a/o may.  The misconception out there is that hep c is not curable. I've decided not to mention that I had hep c because both times they never called back.  I figured I cleared virus and have been tested 6 mo post treatment.  Is that an ethical decision?
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Absolutely. You do not have hepatitis C any more. If it were me, I wouldn't tell a date unless I thought it was getting serious. Of course if I had not cleared I would certainly tell before I started an intimate relationship. I don't think you owe a casual date that much medical history if the relationship isn't definitely going somewhere.
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I guess I have been lucky in my last several relationships... I have told every man before it got "there" and guess what not a one of them backed away. They wanted to know more. I am in treatment know hoping to gain a svr. If I do i really dont think I will mention it anymore. One question not that i would but if you get a svr can you donate blood?
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With all this "love" going around it kinda reminds me of a case of hemmorhoids.... Which reminds me,   oh never mind why ruin all this love.
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Not to incite acrimony in the midst of a rare MedHelp lovefest...

"You do not have hepatitis C any more. If it were me, I wouldn't tell a date unless I thought it was getting serious. "

Why even discuss it when there is seriousness?  Would you also report the fact that you might have been antibody positive and self-cleared if that was the case in your past?  Would a prior case of hemmorhoids make the "serious disclosure checklist"?
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Olly Olly Oxenfree Batman what a groovy thread!!!!!!!!!

We all agree because we are all RIGHT YAY!
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I also agree that Jenny's answer was the best - and I rarely agree about the best answer.
Mike
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