Okay so here is my situation. I had been having sex with this particular partner for over a month (not always protected, as I had been tested prior and everything was in the clear), and one day (a Sunday) we had sex, which was rough and he tore my vagina a little. After a couple day of discomfort, and painful urination (I called my OB and he said it was most likely from the ammonia touching the cut on my vagina causing me the pain, I thought "duh"), my vagina also began to get swollen. Now after speaking with my OB and following his instructions of putting aquaforum down there I felt that something had to be wrong. It was excruciating to urinated and my vagina was really swollen by Wednesday. I made an appointment and when went in they had me do a urine test and a very painful culture swab, along with blood work. Before any results came back my doc had too me that given my symptoms and what he saw, it looked like herpes. I immediately get upset, while listening to how it's so common especially among women. Mind you this isn't making me feel any better.
A few days later I get my results over the phone. My blood work came back fine, but the culture was positive. This I do not understand. I wasn't told if I had type 1 or 2. I told my partner and he insists he didn't give it to me and that I am either lying or now I may have infected him, even though I literally got tested for everything a month before we started having sex, and I hadn't been with anyone else. I just don't know what to do and am really confused. Any info or insight would be greatly appreciated.