Hello,
Im going to try to be brief but I feel like I need to talk. I have had this big fear of herpes (even though its common) since I was 24 years old (2011). I was a always very adiment about getting everything tested when i went for my check ups and would always specificlaly ask for everything including HSV. I wasnt high risk, but i knew that the regular pannel didnt come with it, so i knew to ask. I had and encounter two weeks before, it was with a condom, but we did briefly kiss for about 2 seconds. I dont let people do oral on me because im scared of it and it makes me feel uncomfortable. But, one day when I went to get regular checkup, my IGM for HSV1 went to 1.83. About 5 weeks later I took a IGG test and was negative for both. (<.27 and <.16) I had a little itching on my mouth but nothing ever turned into a cold sore or anything. and Ive had little nicks here or there but nothing like lesions, blister, sores or anything, so i moved on with my life. It always stayed in the back of my head though and has helped with anxiety pretty much the rest of my life.
2017 - my next possible exposure was, hanging with my ex. i went to see him and we didnt have a sexual encounter but, i pecked him on the lips, with no salvia or anything, but i know our lips made contact. The next day i saw a blister form on his lips. I was devestated. I believe i got another test after that and it was negative, but i dont remember even lookin at the numbers. but the doctor told me that it was negative. I still never had any outbreaks or anything, down there or on m lips, just the same itchyness, or it may sting here and there, but no actual sores or anything. I remember in 2018, i had a red bump on my lips at the top right and i just bothered it for like two days, nothing happened to it, but i shaved it off with a razor. so i do not know what it could of been. yeah i was that crazy./scared
2020 - im getting out of a relationship, well we took a break. i had an encounter, but it was with a condom. We got tested for everything except HSV-1. I know my HSV-2 is negative, and everything else. about a week ago, my lips started itching again and a raised bump popped up on the left side of my lip, it didnt do anything but it was itching that was about it. i just put Campho phenique, on it and just took 400g of acyclvoir for 4 days. Actually my whole face broke out, becuase im also using Tea tree oil and taking vitamins like crazy. but like i said nothing every happened. two weeks later my lips still itches. Me and my ex are trying to work it out. we talked about cold sores cause he said he used to get them when he was yonger. When my lipped itched, he said to me, that must be a cold sore, but like i said before, nothing ever formed. I asked him had he ever had one before he said yes, when he was younger as a kid. my lip doesnt itch anymore after 2 weeks now, but i still have this constant fear. And yes i know it is very VERY common, as i have friend that have HSv1 and HSV2. But i don tknow why i have this fear over me. Its something I never talk about and im scared to take a test. IDK what to do or what to think. I stop sharing drinks, kissing and eveything because of this fear, unless i was in a relationshi. But i also am starting anxiety medicine.