Please see your previous questions related to HSV as you have had many.
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It does take friction to transmit, and time.
It's not at all likely to transmit in 5-10 seconds, but do you know if he has hsv1 already? If he does, he can't get it again genitally.
Do you discuss STDs with your partners? You should, because they might have something you could get from them.