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If you get type 2, you wouldn't have a true primary outbreak because you already have type 1 antibodies. A true primary outbreak happens in someone that doesn't have antibodies to type 1 or type 2. Since you have type 1 already, if you get type 2, your first outbreak of that might not be as severe as others get who don't have antibodies to either type yet.
What kind of cream did you use? If it was a steroid cream, like hydrocortisone or something similar, then it probably wasn't herpes, because steroids can make herpes a lot worse.
I can't tell you if you have hsv2 or not. The only thing you can do is get a type specific IgG type 2 test at 12 weeks post exposure. Most people will develop antibodies by 6 weeks, but sometimes, people with hsv1 already take a bit longer. Everyone will develop antibodies by 12 weeks.
You don't really need washing products vaginally. If you do want any cleansing products, use a very gentle product, like Ivory or Dove for sensitive skin. The vagina is like a self-cleaning oven, though, and can keep itself clean. All you really need to do is use a washcloth and gently clean the outside parts. No soap or anything is needed.
I wish I had more definitive answers for you.