Hi!
Just wanted to try and clarify some points about transmission of herpes between two female-bodied people that I'm unsure about. My partner has recently been diagnosed with HSV-2, but I don't have it.
My main concern is asymptomatic shedding; as my partner and I don't really have sex where our genitals come into direct contact, the only obvious transmission routes are orogenital contact, shared toys, and hands that have touched them and then me.
The first two are relatively easy to make safer, but my confusion is around the latter. Where exactly is it that asymptomatic shedding occurs from that we need to avoid touching on my partner? Do lesion sites shed even in dormant disease? Does shedding occur strictly from the genital mucosa, or do we need to be careful about touching buttocks/thighs/hips/mons pubis etc.?
Any advice would be much appreciated!