I have been to a massage parlour 2 weeks ago where I couldn't resist from getting their special service which included massaging genitals and butt. She massaged my genitals (I told her not to touch my penis) and butts with oil, which also included slight movement near the butt hole. Though I asked her not to touch my penis there was slight movement of her hand near the base of penis which got oil on the shaft. During the massage my penis was enlarged and went back to normal after sometime. But when it went back to normal the oil on the shaft entered the urethra, I could say so because I felt a burning sensation. Now I am going crazy. What if I have been exposed to some STD?? What if she has Herpes Whitlow??
I have read at many websites that STD like Herpes, HPV etc spreads through skin contact which makes me go crazier.
I will be seeing my girlfriend this month after 2 years and I believe things will get hot between up. I have no clue what shall I do. I will try to abstain and I feel very guilty for doing this to her.
Am I exposed to STD??
Please Doctors throw some light here.
When we say skin to skin contact in regards to STIs, we almost always mean oral to genital or unclothed genital to genital. It's not hand to genital.
The oil getting in your urethra can absolutely cause irritation and burning, but that's not an STI. You don't feel immediate symptoms of an STI.
I wouldn't spend any time worrying about this. Not even a minute - there's no risk here. I understand that you feel guilty, but guilt doesn't equal risk.