Infection can occur if a shedding burst is of sufficient quantity and sexual intercourse takes place at the time and the virus makes it through the skin to nerve endings.
My point is that for infections like yours appears to be, if your partner is unaware of genital herpes will they truly appreciate when they are symptomless?
Your partner will test positive for HSV2 based on the situation you describe. The fact that it took three years for transmission to occur is an indication of the low chance of transmission per sexual episode.
But then how is it possible to spread the infection if there are no symptoms of an outbreak?
My dr seems to think that I acquired hsv 2 from my boyfriend but he doesn't have and has never had any symptoms of an outbreak.
While this is good news if his test comes back negative, then I will feel more at ease over not transmitting the virus to him. But it doesn't explain how he would have passed to me if he was shedding but did produce a significant amount to transmit the virus.
Any info would be greatly appreciated. Am very confused on how I possibly could have contracted this.
I should add that shedding does not equate to transmission. Everything additional we learn about shedding is unlikely to change transmission rates that have been observed in studies. This is because whatever shedding means in terms of frequency and volume is already inherent in these studies. Most shedding episodes do not produce sufficient virus to cause infection.
I don't believe that there are exact answers to your questions. Research tends to through up new perspectives each time.
Personal view, but I am not convinced that asymptomatic shedding causes the majority of HSV2 infections just yet. With 80% of people not knowing they have the virus and probably not appreciating symptoms, more research would be needed to understand this. No doubt that it does occur though.
It is now known that the virus seems to burst onto the surface of the skin and remains there for a matter of hours at a time. Previous studies probably include one swab a day to detect asymptomatic shedding. There are more days hence on which shedding occurs, but for shorter periods than previously believed.
Recent infections result in higher shedding levels for 6-12 months whilst the immune system builds to an optimal level and breadth including skin response.
I am not sure whether shedding can be linked to a woman's cycle, for some it seems quite likely.
I believe the bursts are fairly random although there I believe the studies suggest some clumping occurs for some individuals.
Look for papers including Anna Wald as an author who participates in numerous herpes studies on the subject of shedding.