my girlfriend tested positive for HSV1 and as soon as I realized this I called my doctor and left him a message, an RN called me back and told me the doctor doesn't want to test and that he consulted with the chief of medicine and they both agreed that it wont be necessary to test me unless I develop a symptom so they can culture it and test that way . I am incredibly worried and find it impossible to believe that they dont want to test me and I am wondering if this is even legal ? ( my primary care provider is kaiser permanente ) VERY well known institution.