Hi, I think if you are OK with having sex, you should be OK to go to a doctor. Select a woman doctor and explain the issue. Nobody on the Internet can diagnose you from looking at a photo (if they don't actively avoid looking at such a photo entirely; some of us are squeamish -- lol). You are going to have a baby some day I assume, this means a lot of medical personnel will look at your lady parts and especially during childbirth it seems like everyone in the hospital drops by and wants to look, and poke you, and all. Just remember that it is about exactly as interesting to them as when a mechanic looks at the engine of your car. It's their job, they are so used to it. If you think you have an infection, an STD, or warts, you need to be seen by a doc.