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HPV QUESTION
NIGHTMARE END NOW!!! : ( - EARLIER THIS YEAR I HOOKED UP WITH A FEMALE FRIEND SOON AFTER SEPERATING FROM MY WIFE. WE HAD BOTH ORAL AND VAGINAL SEX MAYBE FIVE TIMES FROM JANUARY UNTIL MARCH 1ST OF THIS YEAR. SOON AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE HAD HPV IN THE PAST (SHE REFERRED TO IT AS ADNORMAL CELLS AND INSISTED IT WASN'T HPV). ANXIETY QUICKLY SET IN AND I RUSHED TO GET TESTED FOR EVERYTHING STD. ALL TESTS CAME BACK NEGATIVE AFTER 8 WEEKS AND DR. HOOK ADVISED ME TO MOVE ALONG WITH MY LIFE. WELL, THIS AFTERNOON SHE CALLS ME BECAUSE HER INTERNIST HAS REFERRED HER TO A SPECIALIST ASAP BECAUSE HE'S PRETTY SURE SHE MAY HAVE CERVICAL CANCER. I KNOW CERTAIN STRAINS CAN GIVE WARTS OR ORAL CANCER BUT HOW ABOUT GI PROBLEMS, WHAT SHOULD I LOOK FOR WHEN I GUY IS INFECTIVE WITH HPV. ALSO CAN HPV DELAY MY HIV ANTIBODY TEST? I TOLD MY FRIEND THAT I'LL STAND BY HER SIDE THROUGH ALL THIS. IF SOMEONE WITH HPV KNOWLEDGE CAN HELP I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT.
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Hey, how's it going... Just wanted to do one more update before ending this thread... So she saw her doctor today and he gave her the results of her pap smear... Negative for clap and gono... He told her that it was a lesion on her cervix and that it was negative for cancer... The last thing he told her was she had a yeast infection but with no symptoms and some bacteria... I'm very glad that for the most part her vagina is ok... I decided to take my last hiv test on monday for sanity sake... I need this in order to finally move on... I appreciate u taking the time to listen to my problems and ur encouraging words... Thanks again : )
The tragically hilarious part in all this will be how you look back on it and realize how much unnecessary mental anguish you put yourself through. You know the facts and the advice, but somehow taking it to heart is not easy. It's like this for nearly everyone who goes through this kind of thing. You'll be fine and so will she and it'll be all good. Trust me on this one but you'll find out soon enough.
Thanks you for answering my question... I'm trying to stay mellow about all this but it's so hard... for example, my friend texted me about an hour ago telling me her doctor wants her to come in tomorrow for more bloodwork... her telling me this makes me wonder if it's about hiv testing or her cervical issue or god knows what else... and deep down I'm not sure if they did an hiv test on her last month... earlier this month i saw my doctor and he told not to worry about hiv but i can't... we both see the same doctor so on july 5th i'm getting a finally hiv test and i pray that it comes out negative... thank you again for your help... I hope I can get come sleep tonight : (
Go to your Urologist, they are very educated about HPV.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
You should do what Dr. Hook advises but I know you won't be able to. There is really no risk for you in any of this. You have a tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny percent chance of oral cancer in the long term future but it's so low there is no reason to worry about it. Your cell phone is more dangerous.
HPV affects HIV in absolutely no way at all.
There is nothing to look for is she has high-risk HPV. If she gave it too your penis you'll never know. You'll just have to wait two years and after that you can safely say there is no possibility that you would have it as it take a year or two to be supressed by your immune system.
Don't jump to conclusions about cervical cancer. Be worried for her of course, but wait and see what the test show. Just don't put much stock in your worry for yourself. You are not really much at risk for anything.