My partner and I have not had sex. Three nights ago, we came very close, but still, I refrained. Most contact involved one of us having our underwear on. However, there was still skin to skin contact of the surrounding areas like inner thighs, and his penis touched my inner thighs. We also both performed unprotected oral sex on one another. The next morning, he told me he has HPV and and outbreak of genital warts. He said that he wanted to tell me before we had sex. But I think that with the contact we already had it's possible that I could have contracted it already from him.
1) What are the chances of getting HPV and genital warts without actually having sex, but still having skin to skin contact in that area.
2) Is there anything I can do in the days after that can prevent me getting HPV and genital warts?
3) I am a 24 year old woman. Should I get the vaccine right away?
4) I am currently living abroad in South Korea. Can I get the vaccine here?
5) I dumped him immediately and am very mad at him. Am I over reacting? That's probably more like a question for a mental health doctor, sorry. It's just that all of this stuff has been keeping me up at night.