Who ordered the ultra sound that you say shows your ovary up against your appendix? This person should be addressing if anything needs done about it. I don't know if the mere geography would cause this pain or if its something else llike a cyst that they missed. If this physician is not addressing this problem you need to find one who will, a urogynocologist is a specialist in that area and would be my suggestion.
Regards,
Madge
See a differnt doctor, he should advise you on what to do, I would say having appendix out would be a good choice, But why?? why is your ovary rubbing against appendix? which one is inflamed the appendix or ovary?? in either case your dr, should have addressed this more seriously. Please see a new docor asap.