I'M PREGNANT ONE MONTH AFTER A MISCARRIAGE

[Jen k.]

I HAD A MISCARRIAGE ON NOVEMBER 16TH.  IT WAS CALLED A CHEMICAL PREGNANCY BECAUSE I WAS ONLY ABOUT 4 1/2 WEEKS. (BASICALLY IT WAS LIKE GETTING MY PERIOD 5 DAYS LATER THAN NORMAL. NO CRAMPING AND NO D&C NECESSARY.) NOW IT IS A MONTH LATER ALL LAST WEEK HAD SLIGHT CRAMPING LIKE I WOULD BE GETTING A/F.  TOOK A TEST AND I'M PREGNANT!  I'M EXCITED, BUT SLIGHTLY NERVOUS THAT I COULD MISCARRY AGAIN. ALWAYS NERVOUS WHEN I GO TO THE BATHROOM THAT I MIGHT SEE BLOOD.  HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE ELSE?  ANYTHING I CAN DO TO INCREASE CHANCES OF NOT LOSING THIS ONE?

[J3w3lz33]

Hello everyone sorry for your losses I had a MMC with a D&C on 10/5/2011 and decided to TTC even before my first period i'm hoping to get a positive HPT soon i've been have mild cramping but no AF i'm not sure what to think about that... Anyways baby dust to everyone ;-)

[Akeila]

In oct I had a M\C I was like 4\5 weeks..every time sense that my bf always wanna have sex and I don't..the M\C have me scared to get pregnant again.. My sis say I should wait 3 months before I have sex and my bf birth day is coming up so idk what to do...my M\C was on oct 28th and today is nov 8th how much more longer do I have to wait before sex..which my mind is turn from..

[Praying4ALittle1]

Is it recommended that I jump right back into trying to conceive after this month of miscarrying at 5 weeks? Any advice? Thanks.

[Praying4ALittle1]

I also had a miscarriage with my conceiving in October. I have 0 kids. I also felt guilt like it was my fault I did not stay pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant because I thought I had my cycle so I got on the treadmill, climbed stairs, and cried because I thought my month was a failure. Then I found out I was pregnant but will miscarry. I was devastated. I'm still pretty bummed. But my best advice to you is try not to overanalyze your miscarriage. Just know that God has a plan and everything happens for a reason. And this time it just wasn't meant to be. I know this is easier said than done but it will at least give you some closure. I don't think it's a bad idea to stop your smoking habits. Good move.

[purplemazzy668]

I am so despondant, I have 0 kids and found out I was pregnant early Oct. 2011.  I miscarried Oct. 29, 2011 I was 1 and a half mos, pregnant. I quit all my bad habits  and I am of average wieght but I do smoke on occasion.  I will quit completely and I want to try to coneive again ASPA.  I was told it was most likely not my fault but I still carry a lot of guit... any advice?

[almccoy]

Thank you for posting this. I know it was over a year ago, but that last line "I felt like that was god's way of say "get ready for this" and I believe it put us on the same page." was just what i needed. My husband and I got married in July, October 14th we found out (SURPRISE) we were pregnant... on October 21 i rushed to the ER to find out that we were miscarrying. But we've decided that we want to try again... I'm a little nervous, but I know all things are in God's hands.