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252144 tn?1227422620

OMG...start your day off with a laugh at my expense! LOL

I had to share this with everyone!  A little laugh to start your day at my expense...

I come back to the site after nearly 1 month away...it's all new and changed and looking like fun.
Shortly after my return I get a message from member "Vizzu" from India in my inbox and it says...

Bruban,
"Looking so cute fatty. I like bulky lady and you are so.   Very nice lady...... I like your photograph put on your profile..."

WTF?  Where do I go with this?  What a nice guy for saying I'm cute and liking my photograph!  Then he drives that compliment home by calling me Fatty and Bulky.  Did he not see the wedding dress I'm sporting in the picture?  TOTALLY Hi-larious!  I was in tears (laughing) while reading this.  Don't know whither to be flattered, or insulted?  Talk about cross-cultural communication issues or better yet, lost in translation.

Hope everyone has a great Sunday!

Love,
Fatty

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222282 tn?1210164939
thanks , i am just glad im not alone ! im a freak magnet lol . ive not really been on here to be honest but lurk around all over , i will pop back from time to time to say hi , feel free to pm me anytime ,just dont get personal ! lol  lol lol
see ya soon x x
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220917 tn?1309784481
MedHelp is great.  I had a problem with someone before, and they straightened it right out.

Talk to you soon!

Zilla*
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222282 tn?1210164939
my six too ! i just got a pm from medhelp , they are removing him as we are not alone in this . there are some nigerians about too begging for money in pms ! it getting strange around here .
heidi x x
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220917 tn?1309784481
That's hysterical!  Strange. It's a wonder he can't find gals closer to home.  He's such a charmer!

Let's keep our chins up, Ladies!  I'm keeping both of mine up!

Zilla*
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222282 tn?1210164939
bless him , ive seen his pic on his profile ! its not worth the search .he does not post any medical stuff to point you in the direction either  , he just pms . very strange . i found this thread when i searched his name to see what he is upto .watch out you may be next lol x x  
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ELT
Tempted to put my picture IN LOL LOL
Erica
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220917 tn?1309784481
Where is a picture of THIS guy?  Is he some great looking fellow?

He is just clamoring away for all the beauties on our forum!  He must have all the right stuff.  Makes you wonder...

Tempted to remove my picture!

Zilla* : )
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222282 tn?1210164939
i have been too , he is driving me crazy askin for photos , im a big girl too lol !
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365281 tn?1200059308
LMFAO!!!!!!!!
seiously ive not laughed like this in awhile!!!!
it reminds me of a time when our dear friends hubby said i look like a ham hock and he actually thought he was giving me a compliment.... lol lol lol
Hey us gals w/lil extra cushing need love too....
thanks fo sharing
Cheryl (porky)
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147426 tn?1317265632
FOFROLLOL!!!!  OMG!!!  Too funny.  I agree, he may not recognize the dress.  But, through my tears of laughter I was insulted.  Doesn't he also like bulky ladies with salad tongs through their heads?!!

What DOES it take to get a man?

BTW - Chick, nothing here is at your expense.  You look great and like your are having one helluva good time!!

Thanks for the laugh.

Quizzically Quix
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SORRY FOR LAUGHING MY HINEY OFF, BUT IN ALL REALITY THAT HAD TO OF BEEN A SHOCKER.

YOU LOOK GREAT IN YOUR WEDDING DRESS.

I WISH I LOOKED THAT GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!

T
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335728 tn?1331414412
In a Forum that contains soooo much uncertainty and sadness, it is good to see that we can all laugh at this!  I think it is hilarious as well and WTF...life is short and full of bumps, some of us just have more than others and if those of us "with" are being complimented for them I say soak it up!

Rena705
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198419 tn?1360242356
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Absolutely histerical!

Im glad you shared - your WTF, put me over the edge. . .ha/ha. . .

Too funny. . .

Nice to see you pop in,

SL
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333021 tn?1207759633

You're right ... first laugh of the day .   that was great ..  THANKS     .........    Where's Burbandude .  Maybe he needs to be in pic...     BTW if Vizzu liked you for your curves this guy would be gaw gaw over one of mine ....MEN  !!!!     Block him if  he's a nuisance

You have a wonderful Sunday too.

Jo
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222135 tn?1236488221
LOL, it just occurred to me, maybe he was trying to sound cool and mistook "fatty" for "shorty", which hip hop culture calls their girl firends!!!
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222135 tn?1236488221
Too funny! Maybe he figures you're wearing the wedding dress like aspiring actors use headshots, lol! "hey guys! See how attractive I'd look on our wedding day if you just pick me!" OMG that's hilarious. I do agree though that if he still pursues you, have him blocked.

I had a young man sending me private messages about his possibly pregnant girlfriend for a while. He went away when I didn't ever respond.

Penn
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Hi there. I think this is a hoot. He does mean to compliment you in his non-western way. Not my idea of flattery either! Weird.

This may be fun for today, but if you hear more from him there's a blocking feature in MedHelp messages. He's probably trolling with any attracitve woman he can find, and that does get wearisome.

ess         PS Maybe in India that's not a wedding dress!

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195469 tn?1388322888
If you found this message insulting, you should report this to MedHelp and block all further communications from him.

What an awful thing to write someone...even if something is lost in the translation.  Awful.

Heather
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