I decided early on to tell my job, even though I "look fine". I was coming in late, leaving early to deal with Dr.'s appointments during my DX. I didn't want them thinking I was looking for a new job. Their response has be great.
Kyle
HI Sho,
This is a great read, and definitely reveals the quandary in an easily understandable way :(
Nice to see you, Shosin!
-Shell