Hi Lag and welcome,
I dont recognise your name so if your not a newbe please accept my welcome as me being a dill again! lol but if you are new, please have a read of our health pages, top right of your screen, yellow icon, many of your questions will be found there.
I'm sorry you've been thrown into limboland, it always boggles my mind how someone with a dx of MS can loose it when they see a different neuro or stay in limbo for years before changing neuro's and then getting their dx. Its just wrong! wrong! wrong! and your unfortunately not the only one its happend too, why it happens are reasons few of us really understand. small comfort there.
You sound sort of classic RRMS to me (i'm not a dr mind you lol) and id say that you've reached a stage where your sx are no longer fully disapearing, i'm asuming that was one of the reasons why you didn't believe you had MS, it went away. Now maybe its screeming MS to you and the neuro is saying not what it is but what it isn't, i'm not following the logic behind that though.
I'd go back to the original neuro who dx you or at the very least see another neuro, maybe stressing that you are not looking to be dx but for them to take over treating your MS. I would also be asking this current neuro to explain why with out an alternative dx they have taken away your dx of MS? but i'm a curious sole lol!
Lesion are not always MS, some neuro's are lesion counters and a certain number in only classic MS locations will allow them to dx MS, read the health pages i mentioned prior and you'll find this covered in 'how MRI's show lesions in MS'. You may also find the one about the 'mcdonald criteria' and the one about 'how can a person with MS have a clear MRI'. I'm not sure but ON is a common topic here and if there isn't a dedicated health page on the subject, you'll find something if you search the community pages.
Sorry if i've not been helpful, my brain is on the go slow and i'm chasing my tail trying to make sens of my own thoughts lol. so sorry about that!
Cheers..........JJ
PS many of our members have difficulty with sight issues and if you break your posts into smaller blocks, its much easier to read and you'll get more responses too. :-)
Sorry also add involuntary muscle spasms, pins needles and falling asleep (legs).