Your weight you stated is normal for your height so you now need to maintain your weight. For your age, you should consume an intake of 2200 calories or less. You are doing weight exercise and you are building lean muscle which is heavier then fat so suggest using a tape measure to measure your waist, hips, etc instead of a scale. You will feel your clothes fitting looser. There is no real difference of food for running vs. lifting. Just eat light before exercising. To help your stomach area, you have to target it with exercises to strengthen the abdomen, such as crunches, sit-ups. Yoga also helps. Thank you for your question.
Hi Renee, Sorry for the late delay in thanking you for you information. I appreciate all the advice you had written.