I agree also, but the sad fact is 50%(+) of the U.S. has no choice...they are lucky to even be treated for Cancer. For instance, my mom had no insurance and NOBODY (oncologists) here would even talk to her outside of the hospital (where, of course, you get chemotherapy). Luckily, her GynOnc taught at the County Hospital so she was able to get it there until she got Medicare. But even then her care was substandard and abusive...but...what do you do? Say goodbye to the only GynOnc in the entire city and die? Second and Third opinions are great if you have insurance and/or money...for those without, it's like wanting an Aston Martin car when you are working for minimum wage...an impossible dream. :(
I would like to say that my first Oncologist was terrible..she poured statistics in my face and when I asked questions about cancer she was giving me one word answers, yes or no...more no's than yeses. I went for second oipnion to another City and got the bad one again who send me back to my GP because I was asking tooo many questions. Here in BC Canada we do not have many chioces of doctors. We have to be reffered to specialist (Oncologist) by GP's and of course they stick together and cover one another.
What I don't understand is WHY they read your whole story-reports tests etc. from previous doctor when you ask for second opinion....it should be based on tests and more tests not on what previous doctor said or did and that's what gets me.
I had no choice but go to naturopathic/Medical doctor (he is a genius) who is very knowledgeable, sincere and helpful. I see him every 4 moths and do my thing at home. I can also call him for consultations over the phone.
So yes, I agree with you ladies that there are good doctors and bad doctors everywhere. I wish that ALL Oncologists would have a training on dealing with people not their disease only.... Sunes.
Hi Kim,
I totally agree with you , Im very lucky my GP is an absolute angel and treats his patients with total respect and compassion however,I have been to many appointments with an elderly relative of mine , and its true they have spoken to me and acted like she was invisible !!! . I soon put them straight though , I won,t tolerate the lack of respect just because shes an old lady and a bit hard of hearing
Angie
I agree. My first oncologist was absolutely horrible. I described a bad pain to her that i was having under my right rib area. I asked her if she thought it was caused by the I/P chemo, scar tissue or tumor growth. She gave me a look like she thought I was out of line to even ask, and said, "I have no way of knowing." That was that. I had numerous other problems wth her, so I switched. The new one is better, but not great.
My surgical team was great. All 3 of them were kind, skilled and very supportive. Marie