My daughter is 6, will be 7 in April. She's always been mature for her age, because she has really bad asthma and a skin condition that causes severe pain (lichen sclerosis of the genitals), so shes been through a lot. Shes a very sensitive, sweet, well mannered little girl.. well she was. Shes been acting out a lot lately, she has been violent, kicking, choking, screaming mean things, just trying to be hurtful. Shes been lying, hurting her brother (hes 2) and she even got in a screaming match with a substitute at school last week telling her that shes stupid and doesn't know anything. Everything happening is very out of character for her, but she says everything is fine. She doesn't want to talk about anything, shes not mad, shes not sad, nothing, she wont open up to me or the school counselor, and we haven't been able to get her in with a psychiatrist yet, so I don't know what to do in the meantime.
I know why this has happened, my husband recently moved out after one crazy binge that had him high babbling nonsense for 3 days, he went to rehab for his drug addiction, has 27 days sober, is spending more time than ever with the kids, but not staying at home. im sure shes feeling a lot of crazy feelings, but shes completely shut down, pretends nothing is going on, and I dont know how to help. She puts on a show for him, cries and begs for him to stay, but as soon as he leaves she turns off the tears, wont talk about it, and acts like im crazy and imagining that she was crying... back to everything being fine.