yes this is the age that they start getting there sexual hormones
and of corse he is most likley going to fallow things that his friends do
mabee once a month you should talk to him about his relashinships
BUTif he dosnt wan to tell u about his problems then dont force it out
Well, it's true that this is about the age they hit puberty and start to think about girls, kissing, masterbation and yes, sex. But that doesn't mean that it things should be encouraged that they're not ready for or have the maturity to handle.
Yes, it's a good idea to talk to him on a regular basis. Talk to him about the changes his body may be going through and that it's getting ready for him to become a man but that he's too young to be kissing girls just yet. Besides, most schools have a zero policy on PDA (Public Display of Affection) and don't allow kissing, hugging, etc. on school grounds.
It's best to keep him busy with school and sports at this age. Kids already try to grow up too fast in this day and age.
Best wishes.
I keep my soon to be 14 yr old boy into different activities and a close eye on where he goes and who he will be with. Always talk to the parents to see what their rules are before letting him go over there. Especially if they have daughters!! I wouldn't let my son go over to one of his friends because they had an older daughter even though they were strict. He was allowed to go over during the day with parents their but not spend the night. Your doing the right thing by talking to him, keep on doing it because he might not comment but he is listening.
I had my first kiss in 7th or 8th grade... so yeah maybe a little young.
i was 14.. and it was messy gross and BLAHHHH. lollollollol it put me off it for a lonnng time. LOLLOL. what a rotten memory. LOL
I really dont think there is some sort of age restriction for kissing. I had mine at 12 and my friend had his a year younger, yea he had his at 11 and he didn't turn into some rapist. even though kissing at that age still sounds a bit strange. My opinion is that people should loosen up, its just lips touching lips. And what about disney princess books? almost everyone of them has a prince kissing the princess and parents let kids read them and those kids are fine. You should trust your son, if he is going to grow up and become a man he should be capable of making good decisions and not go have sex. Anyways kids around his age usually find anything related to sex, hormone and puberty really disgusting and repulsive. So unless your son is not someone who you would think is mature and responsible enough to handle these kind of things you should just relax.
ok im looking through these pages to start saying something about my class 4th grade... lots of people are saying inapropriate words and refuring to the curtan boys parts and using real words it is weird i say that alot of kids start hand holding or kissing at about age 10 and they even might have boyfriends but im not sure i think they including me only have crushes PS the boys are even trying to find out the info on who we have the hots for by going though our stuff its obviose though the things are miss placed in or out of our desks
ok im looking through these pages to start saying something about my class 4th grade... lots of people are saying inapropriate words and refuring to the curtan boys parts and using real words it is weird i say that alot of kids start hand holding or kissing at about age 10 and they even might have boyfriends but im not sure i think they including me only have crushes PS the boys are even trying to find out the info on who we have the hots for by going though our stuff its obviose though the things are miss placed in or out of our desks
well it may seem kinda weird (ok really weird) but i had my first kiss in the 4th grade and it wasnt the first. although i was exposed to this i never even thought of taking it further. i never even dreamed of it. i have trned out just fine and talk to my kids every once in awhile and nothing like this has ever occured...
speaking from a kids pint of view there is no real age for kissing it is whenever you and your partner are comfterble my first kiss was a month ago and i am in 6th grade the age limit is your comfort zone
My first kiss was in seventh grade. It was with a boy I had been "dating" since fifth. As long as your son knows not to be making out in school, and not to kiss random people, he should be fine. Dont force the talk on him. He will find out soon. At my middle school they gave us all the talk in seventh and eighth grade.
It ok he needs to express his feelings or else he will be (pissy) all the time and he should get it out at a young age
I was in the the 3rd grade. A boy told me he liked me. I had liked him since kindergarten. We became a couple. He invited me to his birthday party. He took me in the closet and he kissed me many times, and I liked it. It was yesterday. Then when we played hide and seek he took me in his bedroom we hid under the blanket on the floor we had a make out session. He told me he wants to be with me forever. After the party I went home with a red face.
In my opinion, it's a bit young but nowadays, you see 8 year olds dating so it probably isn't too far off.
my daughter (12) hasn't kissed or dated anyone because she is not nearly as interested as everyone else in her grade is. she came home from kindergarten once crying because a boy asked her out. she of course said no! I told my daughter to always say no until 4 grade. she still says no ( by choice) in 6th grade. I feel like most kids start to date at the age 11 or 12 and start kissing around the age 13 as some just dont want to start dating or dont feel ready. but I am confused on one part they boy is kissing the girl in the hallways? at school? I was always told (and I still am for my daughter) that kids weren't allowed to kiss at schools. 2 kids in my daughters class were caught kissing at recess and they were suspended!
It's perfectly fine the I knew kids that their first kiss was in 5th grade or late 4th.
I feel it is ok to do a quick one on the cheek
I am 11 and dating a boy that is 12. We have never kissed before but we have been together since 4 grade (now in 6th) Even though we have gotten close I personally don't think I'm ready myself. So whenever your son feels ready you should just let him go for it.(Otherwise he will go through weird teenage faze)...