Heartbroken...

[firstladynyl]

I prayed and prayed. Practically begged God to bless me with the one thing to complete my husband. I had 3 girls and one son prior. He had 3 girls prior. We hadour 1st baby girl together last year. Im 38. High risk. 6th and last pregnancy. 13 weeks. I get the call today with the gender revealing. And my heart fell to the floor when she said its a "girl".  Another girl...no chances of me ever being the one to carry his son.  The perfect man. Husband. And I cant give him that. Knowing that deep down he was soo hoping to have a son of his own.  I couldnt stop crying.  I know its not my fault or determination but the fact that I really wanted to give him that gift makes me feel like a looser that I cant and never will after this...

[irinasmb]

I'm sorry, but I really can't understand this.  I find it a bit unfair to all your girls.  It's like mommy & daddy weren't satisfied with me so they kept having more babies.  That can be detrimental to a kid.  Kids CAN and WILL pick up on things like that.  What if one of your girls ends up detriment in something great with her life that is beyond beleif? Cure a disease? Saves lives?  Invents something that will revolutionize our lives?  Would it really matter what gender she is?  It breaks my heart when ever I see couples keep having children just for a certain gender.  And it's not fair to the siblings. So sad.

[firstladynyl]

i understand that clearly, even he said he feels like he failed me and that its not my fault, but it still doesn't make me feel bad that I can't share that experience with him you know..:(  I will love my child regardless, I have amazingly talented and beautiful girls God has blessed me with, but doesn't shake the fact that this time I really wanted a boy.  wish folks would just understand, I dont regret my child for one minute.

[firstladynyl]

dang almost had a bit of hope, but thanks anyway, truly appreciate it

[meme1isme]

Its his sperm that determines that anyways. U really shouldn't feel like this.

[knufrio]

Yes the blood tests are accurate as they determine the chromosomes. Some people get told on ultrasound that early though and those are often incorrect so early in pregnancy.  

[wayfunmommy]

If you were told gender via a genetic blood test, it is more than likely correct.