Single mother

[buttercupcake]

Is anyone else doing this alone. Im 36 and 34 weeks pregnant. Even though its my 3rd child I wasnt single with my first two pregnancies. Its all a bit surreal Ive had no one to fuss over me this time and the labour and first few months with baby will be all on my shoulders so Ive found the last two weeks Ive been so emotional and a little scared of facing it all with minimal emotional and no financial support

[buttercupcake]

Wow so many similar responses. Would love to hear updates how your all doing. :-)

[Snookgal]

Ladies, I was a single mother for my first 2 births, this pregnancy I have a new husband, I'm 36 years old and currently 18 weeks. I truly enjoyed my time as a single mother, yes it was a little scary but I was so blessed. I didn't have to share my little bundles of joy, I was able to enjoy them.  There never was a discussion on what was best for baby. No arguments on anything, it was a wonderfully peaceful time.  So embrace every minute of it, you can do it.

[denyce89]

I'm 25 having my first baby in a few days im 39 weeks and he broke up with me again perfect timing I'm lonely scared nervous and depressed I understand how you feel this has become a routine words can't explain how I feel but I do wish you for the best just pray and pray and pray honey I'll keep you and your babies in my prayers

[Krista_lpn]

@ twice blessed, what local resources are you referring to? I'm completely new to all of this and it would be beneficial to know that I had some help if or when I needed it. :) thanks so much.

[twice_blessed]

You might want to check your area for local resources. There are organizations that help single parents out there. Not just in emotional support but other means too.

[Krista_lpn]

Hello all. I am 36 years old and expecting my first baby nov 2. I am totally in this alone. The dad is not in the picture and doubt he will be. I recently lost both parents in '12 and '13 and my siblings over their estate. I am the executor of this estate, so that makes things even more difficult. I've had one true friend to stand beside me through it all. I'm scared as hell, but have faith that everything will be okay.

[roxmarie12]

I am 38, surprise pregnancy and doing this whole thing alone too. It's scary for sure but I'm excited. It is difficult to go to appointments alone. The dad wanted me to abort. I am trying to stay positive thatvi can manage on my own.

[ceecee4s]

You will be fine ,a man cant bring a strong woman down,u gotta do what u gotta do!  I know it's different not having a man by your side when you are pregnant but you will get over it i did!

[jthorne]

I'm in the same boat. 42 years old and 34 weeks today.  Wish things with the father were different but am very fortunate to have strong family support.  I will be moving closer to them once baby girl gets here. Can't wait to hold my daughter (FTM).

[Este_kat]

Yes Being a single mother is hard work but we became stronger women from it.  Which at the end it's what our children need.

[lilrican]

Im 23 not single but sometimes i feel so my bf works waaay. Long hours and is hardly home so its me and my 4 year old im 35 weeks and i am so nervous knowing that i have no family in the city i live and my due date bring around the corner so i just try not to think about it in the end if i have to call paramedics that's exactly  what s gonna happen

[chloegc1023]

Being a single mom is not as scary as u may think, especially if u only have 1 child and a supportive family.  I've been there.  If u have more than one kid then have the kids help u.  There is no reason they can't help out with some of the small stuff.  Things will improve for u and u'll be a much stronger person for doing it all on ur own.  I hope u feel better soon, baby will be depending on u..

[tinamechelle]

I'm 35 yrs old, 26 weeks & Im also single, this is my 3rd & I wasn't alone with my other 2.if I sit around & think about it it makes me sad but I try not to think to much. My mom also helped with my other 2 but she is older & sick now so she can't help.

[surprisemom]

I am 39 y/o, 34 weeks, and also single. I am a first time mom, and scared as hell. I am blessed with a very supportive circle of family and friends, but I am beginning to panic because I do not have a significant other who is in this with me 100%. My self pep-talks are ending in a cryfest, and I feel all alone in a "room full of people". I feel you!