I KNOW exactly how you feel. My husband I know really wanted another baby for years, I wasn't totally ready (we have 3 busy kids!) & then I was all into it, & we had several road bumps, ovarian cyst, lap. surgery, 2 mc.'s & DnC. He is "supporting" me w/me going thru fertility treatments, cuz he knows how strongly I feel. BUT every now n then he's like " I think were done" "we need to just stop at some point"
I think for him (maybe the same for you) Its hard for him to see me hurt, both emotionally & physically.
But I KNOW he wants another baby (or2!) Its just that its been tough the past 1.5+ years!
Good luck, I think you should "TTC" & just not "talk about it" :)
Selaiwa, that is a great surprise! I would just go with it, get the opk's and go for it!! It does sound like he wants another baby, too. Good luck this month, fingers crossed and lots of ssbd!
I am a little confused with my husband. Last month after a natural cycle with a bfn,he told me that he was ready to stop ttc and wanted us to just go on with our life and that he was happy and our family was complete .I am confused because(sorry if tmi) he usually uses the withdrawal method but now he just comes inside of me all the time.I think that subconciously he wants another child but doesn't want to get hopes up since we haven't been able to concieve for 6 months.I don't want to say anything to him because I just want him to try it his own way. I think that I will go buy a couple opk's from the $ store and find out if I will O soon.I am cd11 and last month I ovulated on cd 15 so I have about 3-4 days to go.
Well, I'm 7dpo and had some cramps and a lower backache for 3 or 4 hours. I'm thinking af is right around the corner. My temps are still up but am really nervous to see what it will be tomorrow. I don't want to see a dip. I'm just tired of this tww, I feel like I get more anxious each month. Oh well, I don't think I will have long to wait. AF is due in 4 days. I still have nop idea of when I o'ed either. I got a positive opk and then didn't have a rise in temps for 4 days. Any ideas?
Well, good luck to all that are in the tww and so sorry to all those who are out this month. There's always the next time. I guess some of us are just tired of waiting til next time...lol
I'm out! Took beta today, really didn't want to bother w/it & really the only reason why I took it was because I only have 1 tube/ovary I wanted to make sure I wasn't. I didn't want to hear that my beta was @ a 12, or 25 or something like that when I know it should be at least at 100 @ 14DPO.
I'm pretty bummed, even though I totally expected it :( sighhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Now UGLY AF needs to come for a visit so I can START ALL OVER AGAIN!
selaiwa: I don't think anything will help except hearing we're pregnant. :(
rubyinparadise: You're too kind. Thank you very much for those heart-felt words/thoughts. May God bless us all in everything we do, Amen. O:-)