Hi, my LMP was on 19th Oct. I had spotting a couple of days before my last period was due (literally only when I wiped) but pregnancy tests came back negative. I seemed to need to go to the toilet more frequently...but it may have been psychological as a was checking to see if my period had arrived! Other symptoms are: feeling bloated, a few dizzy spells (occasionally not constant), the same with feeling nauseous, more vaginal discharge, headaches, upset stomach, very soft and tender cervix, stuffy nose, lower abdominal cramps and when I wee (sorry) it seems to be darker and have a stronger smell. My breasts are a little bit tender but not as much as other ladies have described, and I am tired but not in the same league as I was when I had my daughter 14 years ago...although I did lock my office door and go to sleep for an hour one evening last week which is not the norm ;) My next AF is due in 3 days and I'm trying to hold off from doing a test until then but I'm torturing myself by reading zillions of forums to try and find someone with the same symptoms who has a definite answer (although I know everyone's different!) So I thought I'd post myself. I went to the doctor last week who didn't think it was an early menopause due to a few reasons, he suggested I wait another week and then test again as it could be stress related...although the wait is driving me crazy and other than that i don't feel stressed! I'm analysing every little change and niggle that my body has. Part of me thinks that I am pg but then is it just wishful thinking??? Maybe! Any advice on how to develop a little patience is gratefully received ;)