Divorce papers in hand..

[tattoomommy03]

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him
And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont  be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)... he will sleep on the sofa and I will know where he is going. No more guys night. Unless its here. Man this is getting me ready for the teen years! Almost tempted to put a chip in his neck to track him down lol. So what do ya think? Am I stupid for considering a second chance?

[searra]

Really? My exhusband and I were seperated for two years and he filed for devorce and they said even though we were seperated we had to try again til after I had my babies.
    My sister in law did the same thing and they wouldnt grant it to her as well. Maybe its different in every state. Idk

[mckee513]

I've seen the comment u can't divorce while pregnant many times on here. It's he can't divorce you. Trust me my bf divorced her husband and she was pregnant. He cheated she filed.

[searra]

By the way sweetie you cant devorced while your pregnant its not aloud. You have to wait regardless.

[tattoomommy03]

Wow... thank you all so much for your thoughts and advise! Its helped me see all sides of this. He came over and I told him to go to counciland show me proof and to do everything to earn my trust. He will be staying at folks house ( poor badtard) so I'm sure my dad will keep me updated on his movement. Hhe agreed to the std test once its time. I am filling the paper work out as we speak. I doubt his trust and words. Im a fighter for sure. So we will see what happens. I asked how far he went with her and he said just a ********.. don't believe it,  not at all....

[crstl11]

Yeah the trust thing is a big issue here to. I have bad trust issues and it has been nearly two years in June. What makes it worse is the girl is a ex girlfriend and a friend of his dads family. Her dad lives next door to his dad so she will always be around and this is the second time they have done this once before we got married as well.

[katngary143]

Thats a tough road momma but u have to do what makes u happy and what is best for u and the little ones ....temptation is always around the corner and trust needs to be earned back the hard part is def trusting him and not second guessing everything he is doing bc that will eat u alive...its a long and hard road giddy up sister