Divorce papers in hand..

[tattoomommy03]

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him
And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont  be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)... he will sleep on the sofa and I will know where he is going. No more guys night. Unless its here. Man this is getting me ready for the teen years! Almost tempted to put a chip in his neck to track him down lol. So what do ya think? Am I stupid for considering a second chance?

[tomorrow264]

I think you are making a good decision. If you try to make it work and it doesn't you can still divorce him later. I hope the talk goes well and he's willing to do what needs to be done so you can try to move forward.

[emmaftm]

I think ur choice is up to u, my bf has had loads of chances... seriously to the point where im searching for the MUG tattoo on my forehead!! U sound like a strong woman and i wish u all the best... (send some of that strength my way ;) lol)

[Flickan]

I think if this is the choice you made, than this is the right choice.  Hope the talk goes well.

[jwilliams81]

I have given my hubby more chances than he probably deserves.  He has never done what yours did, and most everything he has done was before we were married.  I just tell myself this-I know him, I do have feelings for him, and I can honestly say I want to try.  He is not perfect, I am not perfect, and if I chose to move on the next guy would not be perfect either.  I don't want to start my life over trying to fix yet another dirt bag's bad habits, so I stick with the one I have chosen and make it work the best I can.  If he does something I cannot live with, then the line will be drawn and I will have plently of reasons to fall back on.  If YOU can live with it and let it go, then it is worth it.  If you cannot get past what was done, then nothing will ever make it work.  Good luck sweetie <3

[carmarie25]

I think in life we all make really stupid mistakes that we can never take back i think its good of you to try it wont cause any harm and at least if u give him a second chance it wont be a "what if game" as to just shunting him out and not giving him the chance to redeem himself! And i tjink your rules r great u gotta do what ya gotta do for you and ur kids and hey if he doesnt agree or makes another mistake at least u can always say you tried your best!!! Good luck hun and i wish u all the best!!!

[mckee513]

It's your choice mama. Do what you feel is right. I wouldn't but that's just me. Only because I could never fully trust him again. It wouldn't be fair to me or him. Staying for the kids is never a reason to me. Kids would rather be from a broken home then live in a broken home. This is only my opinion. You do what is right for you