Divorce papers in hand..

[tattoomommy03]

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him
And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont  be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)... he will sleep on the sofa and I will know where he is going. No more guys night. Unless its here. Man this is getting me ready for the teen years! Almost tempted to put a chip in his neck to track him down lol. So what do ya think? Am I stupid for considering a second chance?

[tomorrow264]

I think you are making a good decision. If you try to make it work and it doesn't you can still divorce him later. I hope the talk goes well and he's willing to do what needs to be done so you can try to move forward.

[New Mommy 2 Be 2007]

If you can leave with it that it fine, but that fact that he slept with a Stipper! And could of god for bid got an disease and past it to you and not care your pregnant I wouldn't be able to get thru it! I'd throw him out and get a divorce, I mean yes their are the kids, I get fed up and to cheat is hard and the guilt is probably worst so I'm not sure what else to tell you, you two are married not dating. It's a hard choice but if you can handle it then try to work at your marriage, it's all on you

[New Mommy 2 Be 2007]

Best of luck to your marriage

[crstl11]

If u love him then go for it. If not then u may be wasting ur time. My husband can be a plain jerk and most of the time doesn't deserve me but I stay here for my kids so I can't judge u either way. He never slept with another women but he talked to one on facebook behind my back and sent her pic and she did the same and then we drew up papers to get divorced and called a lawyer to meet with. Then I caught up with him and found he txted her over 800 times in 4 days and called her then he decided he wanted me...

[mckee513]

Wow you women put up w more than I ever would. How do you even trust these men again???? And the line I stay for my kids is a bad one. If it was your daughter would you want her treated like that and lied too? I would want better for myself and my kids

[searra]

I can tell you one thing, its going to take alot out of you not to rezent (sorry for my spelling) him. You pretty much have to train your mind not to want to kill him all the time, and trust me its hard. I still havent figured it out all the way. even when im happy im still bitter to my husband. But some women are alot stronger. I would really try marriage conciling.