So, try not to check your own cervix. That's unreliable and pretty hard to do on yourself for any accuracy. Women don't usually find out they are pregnant by checking for changes of their own cervix. :>) I doubt you are pregnant as you used protection that didn't fail. Wait a full week and if your period hasn't shown up, take a urine pregnancy test at home. You are most likely just later than usual and that happens to all women from time to time. Things that can make us late are stress, changes in routine, illness, gaining or losing weight. So, try not to worry. I'm guessing your period will appear soon and if not, use an hpt to double check. good luck
I checked again today, morning, it is high, a bit soft and wet but not that wet just a bit. Planning on testing later.
Ps i haven't tested out a pt. I will update you guys. Im just waiting for atleast a week and if today I haven't got it yet I'll test.